Hey Gang,It has been a month since my stepdaughter left, this is the first day my husband has spoke to me in a week and a half. I prayed two days ago about all of this and I feel a little better. I just pray he will not blame me and see the wrong in her and that this was her decision to leave not mine or his. We haven't discussed her at all, I can't I don't know what to say and he just gets mad........ she never calls either, just her birthday and christmas eve to get her presents....... We have no idea what she is up to, since she doesn't make any contact I can asure you she is up to destruction and not construction....... the uncle she chose to stay with has a history of porn abuse.......and yes that scares me to death because she is young dumb and not ugly at all, and his wife is hidious U-G-L-Y and 300 plus lbs. And the Uncle has a grudge against my husband, they always have they are half brothers. So you see where I am going with this.Anyway, thanks for all your support and I need any feedback I can get, never been down this road before....... Love and HUGS to all