Hey Everybody, I write this with a heavey heart and tears flowing. My daughter that had the sweet baby for me, came home Sunday. they were not married but he just said he couldn't do this baby life and fussing with my daughter all the time. What she fussed about was he never helps with the baby, comes home the feet go up and he plays video games. So here we go. Like I haven't had enough financial strain. I don't even have a slab for my child yet. As for the father, I just told him I couldn't beleive he did this, walking out on that beautiful baby, after he was raised by only one parent, his mom died when he was 11. You all I need extra hugs and support, that baby is alot of work I am not used too. It has been 17 years since I did this!!!! P.S. We were at church when he moved out!!
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THATS SAD! AND ITS TOUGH ON BOTH YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER AND I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO HAVE A BABY IN THE HOME AFTER RAISING YOUR OWN ITS REALLY HARD.GOD WILLING YOU CAN COPE WITH IT, YOUR DAUGHTER REALLY NEEDS YOU RIGHT NOW,I PRAY EVERYTHING GETS BETTER FOR YOU ALL FINANCIALLY AND MENTALLY.GOD BLESS
i\'m so sorry that he did that. why dont guys realize what they are doing? why are they so selfish? chris would always play video games and take my friend to dinner and movies while i was home with the baby. i couldnt take not having the help. i felt lik a single mom when i was NOT. so i\'m better off just being here alone w/me and the baby. i get stressed not having the help but i hate fighting with him. thats why i\'m so scared for him to move in with me. he asked and i said sure as long as we dont fight. i just want to havea family so badly. i dont want logan to go through what i did growing up. i wish i could somehow help. i learned a long time ago that no matter what i did, no amount of crying, begging, yelling, or giving him a guilt trip would make him want to be the father that logan so despratly needed. you all are in my thoughts and prayers. xoxoxoxo
WOW...that is alot for you right now...I know that you have the strength to do this...but the timing could not be worse...try to find the positive and do your best...that is all we can do.