well... I still don't know what is really up with my guy friend.  It's almost like he's scared to do anything that could end up with him getting hurt.  Which I understand after his last relationship.  It just kinda sucks existing in this "relationship limbo".  Like we are not together, but we are hanging out, and he kissed me goodnight.  Plus the other night another guy was bugging me and he told me to just tell the guy to back the fuck off.  So.. it's basically relationship limbo... like it's an almost thing... wtf.... why can't this be so much more simple...