so, I have kinda been eating the past couple days.  But, like I've only eaten a bit today and I feel really full, so I might not end up eating again today. 
 
As for the guy friend, it's kinda developed into more than just friends.  He came over to my house yesterday and we hung out.  We ended up cuddling and making out on the couch, then he drove me to work.  I don't know exactly where this is going, but as of right now it's ok.  It seems like he might actually be interested in a relationship.  He does the little things that make it seem like he might, like holding my hand in the car or hugging and kissing me goodbye.  Well, I'm just gonna see how it goes and hope for the best.