This week
So...the fam and I went to a near by town and a near by swimming hole. The ride up, and back was horrible. The now 14 year old from hell wouldn't stop going off on me, nor his 6 year old sister and the mom allowed it. She did finally try to get him to stop when we got close. Who lets a 14 year old call a 31 year old names such as loser and idiot non stop??
Roy, her oldest, started band camp. He has been moody lately, I think from his anxiety. Something is wrong that he won't talk about. He and i got into Saturday. He yelled that I never listen. Monday night he had a fight with either mom or stepdad, I tried to get him to talk about it via text (he can't call me when he is home) and wouldn't tell me. He did say he wanted to kill himself. I did get the following email-
Subject Line-"I HATE MY LIFE"
Hey been having a hell here SUPPOSELY mac got me a vehicle but is now wanting to sell it I HATE the mccleland family and now mom is beened to there side and now aaron is to now they haved turned to bitches and that's how its been for the longest time i could remember so hope you are having a wonderful time i ant i feel like killing myself
He refuses to talk about it. I have tried. And apparently yesterday he had no lunch at the 8 hour band camp, but again all he said was his mom wasn't talking to him and she forgot his lunch. I asked him several times to get a list of stuff he needs for band camp-nothing. So who's not listening to who? I love him as if he was my own son-BUT i refuse to take on his emotional baggage.
I'm picking him up tonight, he will be at my house for 2-3 hours. I am going to pray with him and do communion. I refuse to interogate him over what is going on, I don't need it. If he opens up, then good for him. I will also not tolerate him being "moody".
Roy, her oldest, started band camp. He has been moody lately, I think from his anxiety. Something is wrong that he won't talk about. He and i got into Saturday. He yelled that I never listen. Monday night he had a fight with either mom or stepdad, I tried to get him to talk about it via text (he can't call me when he is home) and wouldn't tell me. He did say he wanted to kill himself. I did get the following email-
Subject Line-"I HATE MY LIFE"
Hey been having a hell here SUPPOSELY mac got me a vehicle but is now wanting to sell it I HATE the mccleland family and now mom is beened to there side and now aaron is to now they haved turned to bitches and that's how its been for the longest time i could remember so hope you are having a wonderful time i ant i feel like killing myself
He refuses to talk about it. I have tried. And apparently yesterday he had no lunch at the 8 hour band camp, but again all he said was his mom wasn't talking to him and she forgot his lunch. I asked him several times to get a list of stuff he needs for band camp-nothing. So who's not listening to who? I love him as if he was my own son-BUT i refuse to take on his emotional baggage.
I'm picking him up tonight, he will be at my house for 2-3 hours. I am going to pray with him and do communion. I refuse to interogate him over what is going on, I don't need it. If he opens up, then good for him. I will also not tolerate him being "moody".
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