ugh
I wrote this long, soul bearing entry and a glitch in the system erased it when I tried to post it. Suffice it to say I am trying to stick to my resolve to tell my CS that I want a separation--and then follow through with it. I think it will be the hardest thing I've ever done in my life, aside from standing firm in the decision. I love him very, very much. But, I don't think I can live like this anymore. Not without some serious consequences to my well being.
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No, you can\'t live like that. You can\'t look the other way forever. He won\'t change if he thinks he can continue like this. He won\'t change if he thinks he\'s getting away with it, and he won\'t change if he thinks you\'re accepting it. If he finds out you know, he may bet on you being more afraid of making a change than living with it even longer.