Thank you all for your prayers.  The lawyers went fine and the charges will be dropped.  This hit us out of the blue, i have had one speeding ticket my whole life then i get these charges brought on me and it is like WOW.  As far as my nephew, thank you guys.  The story behind all of this is, his mother and i have been best friends since 1978 and then we both got married and she had a child and i had two children.  We would get together often and then i divorced and married my current husband 5 yrs ago and she met his brother at our wedding and then a year later they were married.  So we as best friends since the age of 12 ended up being related.  I don't want to bore you anymore but i thought i would give you the run down on this situation.   Everytime i drive into Phoenix and on my way home i feel so lonely and i cry because i miss my son and his dorkiness.  I know that sounds crazy but i always called him my dork child because we were both cut ups.  Gosh it has been too long since i have heard his voice and i have talked with him, there seems to be such a emptiness within wanting him to fill it with his words and with his love.  Soon Jake i will see you again. Love to all and you all are such a blessing to meDawn