Today was a little hard it is my first bday without my son and that was difficult. No one called to wish me a happy bday either. I am sure it is because they don't what to say to me because my son died 8 weeks ago and things are so fresh still. I really miss him and want him back with me
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Hey there, thanx for the hug. Your right its good reaching out to someone it feels like your cleansing your feelings. Its been so long i opened up i feel the weight lift off me. Im sorry about today being bad but even though all your going through i still hope you had a nice day, you deserve one after everything. In the beginning i think everything is so dazed and fresh, it takes time for the shock to seep in and then comes the overwhelming emotions. Dont isolate yourself please speak to someone but only when you are ready, you must be ready, give it time. I wish you many future happy birthdays yet to come. Things are always so hard in the beginning but you have to keep thinking the pain will lessen everyday.
Thank you for your words they mean so much. One thing i have learned thru this is to talk about it when i want to talk about it. There are times that you are ok with it and you don\'t need to talk but then as you know those feelings change from day to day. May God Bless you.
HAPPY LATE BIRTHDAY........PLUS HERE IS A HUG FOR U.....LOVE DIANA