We just got back from our annual trip to Utah (her family lives there).  We had a great time!!!  We actually had time to spend with each other as well as family alone time.  We played together and had a truely enjoyable time together.  But one thing really stuck with me during this trip.  She STILL cannot kiss me passionately!  Frustrating as hell!
We went out drinking one night on the trip and were both feeling really good!  We were both in a playful mood, so when we got into bed, I kissed her hard - not french kiss, just a hard kiss.  She responded to it and kissed me back.  So I took it further.  When I tried to kiss her passionately (french), she started laughing and pulled away.  I laughed a bit and tried again.  She stopped me and said she couldn't kiss me.  I asked why.  She said that because I violated her privacy so she can't seem to be that intimate with me.  I got really angry and got out of bed.  I said that I was the one violated with her A's and I should be the one feeling like this.  I moved to the couch that night.
She apologized the next day, but still held onto the fact that she was violated.  I told her that snooping was the result of my feeling that she might be cheating on me.  Guess what; I was right!  So my snooping just brought out the truth about her.  She felt like she was violated and that now I know the real W she is - true!  But if she wants to move forward with me as my W, she needs to at least try to gain that passion back between us.  If not, then we're doomed.  She wants me to move on and trust her, then she needs to move on and try with me too!!
Any advice out there?  I think we're stuck on this one.  Me