cing therapist for personal growth and still cing pastor for marriage counseling.  think husband needs 2 face some of his own demons,but he has 2 want it 4 himself.  my responsibility is 2 make sure im ok.  and h will have 2 take care of himself.  I will try 2 look past these feelings 2morrow so that i can worship.  he gets off work 1145 and sd he wanted 2 go to the church to finish the bulletin.  i tell him thats not acceptable.  so then he puts it on me.  will i wake him so he can do it in the morning.  i would have helped him if he asked but he didnt & i decided not 2 offer.  i sd id wake him.  did i do the right thing?  i know that him going 2 church @midnight is wrong.  fuck that.  but shd he b going there early morn either?  and shd i have agreed 2 wake him? im gonna ask dr joyce on fri.