i amstressed.  i can flit pouring out of me.  we r yet again inthe neg in our chk acct.  alot.  last wk igotmy 1st paychk.  collectively we gotpd lik 2grand andwe r inthe neg .  seems it doesnt matter howmuchwe get pd we keep paying major ammts tothebank incharges.  over agrnd bet dec and now.  my h shdno longer b incharge of the acct.  we nd a budget.  wenvr follow it.  ihave andthen ihget resentful b/cim the onlyone.  we nd 2 do it2gether.  we nd 2 find away 2 kp track of what were spending.  the  bankchrages r killing us.  isuggested us doing cashonly b4 hedidnt wanna. we may nd 2 revisit again.  something has 2 give.  he fortgets stuff he charged...that ichrged...whatever.  wea;ll 4get stuiff,but this is2 much.  itsnot 1 things hes 4gtting bunchesof stuff. we nd 2 do this 2gether.  maybe meet once a week.  anddiscuss the finances.  cause this is so not working.