hey married people! do u like me have problems makng time for sex w/ur spouse? seems like my hubby & i r rarely in the mood @ the same time. we have 3 children and church resp and jobs and fam....i hardly c anyone that i dont work with or go 2 church with. i have 1 friend that i only c b/c she worked @ my sons daycare....now hes moving so she thinks shes nvr gonna c me....shes kinda right. i cant make a date w/my h how am i gonna make a date w/her....it just sucks. my life is work church children....i do get time 2 myself after children go 2 sleep. i am grateful. but by the time hubby gets home im ready 4 bed...he wants 2 unwind or just totally crash. i miss sex but i also miss romance. i dont just want a roll i want lust romance sweetness. ive bn making an effort 2 notice & acknowledge the sweetness....i still miss the sex. married folks any suggestions.
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I can understand your delima. With our schedules there may be days that I rarely see my husband. On M/W/F mornings he is out of the house at 5am to go to dialysis then he works until 10:30 or later and I am asleep when he gets in. I am faithfully dedicated to my church and the things of God, so I spend a great deal of time (maybe to much time) either at the church or at home working on something. Sometimes you just have to make a sacrific to have the time with your husband. Try planning a special dinner at home, turn off the phone, send the kids out, and let things take its course. God ordained marriage as a special union between the man and woman. I Corinthian 7 speaks about marriage. Take care and Lord bless you .. LYnn
We don\'t hav kids & its difficult 2 make time 4 it. The other day i jus got so fed up with wham bam let\'s watch tv. So i bought smell-good candles & set the room up. I was very \"nicely\" dressed & i made it romantic. He was very pleasantly surprised. He had a long day working @ the church, so it was his chance to unwind. Bottom line is ya\'ll r busy. U may not hav time everyday or even once a week, but don\'t let 2 weeks go bye w/o taking that time out for ea. other. Its soo important.