morning kinda crazy from the beg. my hubby is gettin on my last nerves.  my friend is lending me her car...he nr sd anything about me taking him to work....if he wanted me to take her to work he shdv asked me to ask her to be here in time....anyway so she sd shed be here in time for me to take isis to camp.....so he leaves to go to work.......and then calls from a pay phone b/c our cell is off....to c if shes here yet b/c he went to catch the bus with no singles he says....stupidest thing ive ever heard of...so he goes to get change but shes not here yet....so he says hes gonna take a cab...a cab!!!!!!!....we are already in the hole in our acct b/c of some bad advice that he gave me....he sd that b/c there was a holiday in the middle of the wk that purchases wouldnt hit til frid...some crap..anyway he was wrong and so we started the new week with overdraft charges again....and i didnt know and so we are in the hole...ok so he has a chk for 150 from church says hell cover the negative with that...it was just enuf...praise the lord...and now he wants to take out money to take a cab...when hes already late for work...when hes late for work every day....and use money that we dont have and pay more overdraft charges.....this crap is getting old....i mean damn do i gotta treat him like a child?  i didnt go out yday..i was home with the little children...did i need to go buy him a transpass for the bus?...he cldnt do that himself?  i know he took money out of the acct.....if he was short he cld have asked...i have some money..a bit and i wld have bpught him a pass..in fact when he gave that chk...i told him i wld.....but he rarely plans 4 anything and i end up suffering b/c of it...its so stupid