i told him that money prob r life...it happens i am used to it, but what made it bearavle was the relation with him....and w/o that then what r we doin here? why be married? i thought i cld just live in thei house with him like a roomate but i cant. hes done everything but move out...hes not here emotionally
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I will keep you in my prayers. It would be my guess that the both of you are just frustrated and he may be emotionally checking out. That is my take on it. If you have a pastor that you could go to maybe that would help. Him moving out isn\'t going to solve any problems, just make them worse. I had troubles two years ago, and I moved out with my daughter and although we were able to put things back together again, we are still dealing with some of the after effects with my ds and he is 19. Your kids are young yet and if my ds didn\'t understand at 17, the littles will really be confused.
If you have a pastor that you could go to, even if your dh won\'t go, I would go myself just so I could find some direction and pastors also have some good fiscal advice.
It is really hard to have money problems but when things got tight around here, the more creative in the kitchen I got. We actually ate better on a tight budget.
I wish I could help you but what I would do is find my pastor and ask him for help. I\'m always here too, if you need to message me.
God Bless you.
LL