its funny i thought tday that my cousin in law was in my boat...she was a stay at home mom...and then i found out tday that she got a job...shes expecting....a part of me feels like a slacker...well actually that i am percieved as a slacker....i dont feel like a slcker well not for staying home....sometimes for my housekeeping...anyway...sometimes i feel alone...i have one friend who stays home with her kids....and u know what we dont get together enuf. she always helps me and i often help her...we r leadership on the choir together and sometimes i forget that she is a stay at home mom....she is where i shd begin when lookig for another mom to connect with.