im a little pissed, but ok. steve's mother leaves me a message that shes coming over to help me get the house straight. who asked 4 her help? from her i feel nothing but critcism and judgement. i dont want her help...she doesnt even respect me enuf to ask me if i want her help...she doesnt ask b/c she knows the answer so she just pushes in and steve wont say a word....that is a bid part of our prob. hell nvr say no to his fam...anything they do to him is allright...anything they do to me is allright.
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Im sorry. Its difficult 2 say no to family, but when theyr making ur spouse unhappy sometimes u just have 2. Hang n ther & continue 2 try 2 get thru 2 him.
Steve needs to grow up and mother needs to mind her own business. If you dont ask for her help she shouldn\'t give it.
In times like this his mother is coming just to be able to say later that she made sure that you took what was yours. Girl, I have been down the Mommy&Son thing to where it got really ugly. I told his whole family that I didn\'t want nor need there help. You are involved with him not his family. They just want to be in your business because they don\'t have enough of their own to deal with. Keep her out! Girl you will be just fine once you heal. And keep writing, I have plenty to give.
In times like this his mother is coming just to be able to say later that she made sure that you took what was yours. Girl, I have been down the Mommy&Son thing to where it got really ugly. I told his whole family that I didn\'t want nor need there help. You are involved with him not his family. They just want to be in your business because they don\'t have enough of their own to deal with. Keep her out! Girl you will be just fine once you heal. And keep writing, I have plenty to give.