i just dont feel like hes making any real effort.....corny as it sounds i swear he and i do not speak the same lang. i ask what do u want for dinner?...or my bad i suggested stewed chick...he likes stewed chick...i started cooking it b/c we got married...i had nvr made it b4. so i make it..well he put it on and i had to finish b/c he lazily put it in a slow cooker and it was close to dinner time....i made everything else and he wanted to eat some leftover chicken and rice....makes me feel like why did i bother to cook. i think that i am extra sensitive and extra critical b/c i still feel neglected by him and he still hasent really given me any affection...i am affection starved. he keeps sleeping downstairs....where is the effort...doesnthe miss me too?