i told my husband that i resented that he did not want me to get my tubes tied. he didnt want "us" to get my tubes tied b/c he wanted to show god that we trust him. im still pissed b/c its me who will get preg...its me who will spend my days taking care of a 4th child. my life will b effected...his will be effected minorly in my opinion. hell still go to work and church and school. and ill b home with another child...hes so quick to make a decision for us that is really making a decision for me. he is making decisions for my life!!!!!!! i dont trust him. this thing with his mother makes me not trust him, so i then question all the decisions that he has made for me.
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Girl you stay on birth control and don\'t be controlled. Maybe there is another way to get closer to your husband, is he just not interested or is he having a problem that many millions of men are haveing and he\'s not wanting to talk about it ? Maybe he need some sort of meds. Or maybe you can think about making changes within yourself, I mean, if you are unhappy it will show and get nothing but worse. Maybe he\'s not one of those types you can spill your guts too. OR, Check out a place called Adam and Eve. try typing in AdamAndEve.com or something similar. Crystal
Girl you stay on birth control and don\'t be controlled. Maybe there is another way to get closer to your husband, is he just not interested or is he having a problem that many millions of men are haveing and he\'s not wanting to talk about it ? Maybe he need some sort of meds. Or maybe you can think about making changes within yourself, I mean, if you are unhappy it will show and get nothing but worse. Maybe he\'s not one of those types you can spill your guts too. OR, Check out a place called Adam and Eve. try typing in AdamAndEve.com or something similar. Crystal