we talked a little in the early hours of this morn. he doent feel comfortable with counselling. so i thought maybe if we do what we did when we got along so well. so i suggested we go out fri night....i will b careful not to have any crazy romantic expectations....i wanna go out with my friend...the sex doesnt concern me...never been a prob...there never was much romance unless i attempted to create...the passion is missing, but my husband and i have been friends a long time...longer than weve been married...i think if we get the friendship back that the rest will follow.we used to go to fridays all the time when we used to hang out when we were on off dating....i think thats a good place to start....hope it helps and doesnt hurt