Update.
Mood is sinking faster than the Titanic. genuinely miserable. Thought long and hard about why, me and Sarah had an argument, first in an age.
Also the first time that our relationship does not rely on me fixing anything. This time it is her that needs to repair damage. If it wasn't for the fact that our relationship seems to be hanging in the balance, I'd quite enjoy this position of blamelesness.
As it stands, I am terrified it may be over soon. Just got to keep hoping.
Also the first time that our relationship does not rely on me fixing anything. This time it is her that needs to repair damage. If it wasn't for the fact that our relationship seems to be hanging in the balance, I'd quite enjoy this position of blamelesness.
As it stands, I am terrified it may be over soon. Just got to keep hoping.
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Ahh sorry, didn\'t see this until after I\'d replied to your message.
Surely if you haven\'t argued in so long until now, the relationship is strong enough to pull through this rift. I know from experience how difficult a long term marriage can be...but sometimes it is much better to handle stress along side a partner than it is to go it alone. Sometimes.
If you feel like discussing things a bit more you know I\'m a pm away.
lub oo
Aww Jase, I\'m sure you guys will get through this.... from what you have said before, you two seem pretty solid. Are you sure its not a case of BPD black and white??
I really hope things improve for you.. I\'m only here in fits and starts and am quite negative myself at the moment, so writing something positive must be a good sign for you.. Hugs xx
hugguns mosh, you guys will be fine... one sporadic arguement is nothing to worry about, although of course i understand why your thoughts jump straight to the extreme worst case scenario.. it`s what we do ;)
just be there to help her repair whatever the damage is should she need it. you`ve both come through stressier times than this before sir!
see you at ze veekend!