I'm still trying to deal with some issues with Eli. I had a couple drinks when i got off work today at a local bar.  I went home and fell asleep.  I talked to him for like 5 mins maybe and told him i was tryin to sleep.  He said to talk to him anyway.  After chewing him out more, he finally let me go.  He called me 6 times in 3 hours while i was asleep.  He left me messages saying he didnt know what i was doing and accused me of cheating again.  I care for him, i just want him to quit suffocating me.  I would LOVE to talk to him once a week instead of everyday every chance we get.  I've tried telling him that and it doesnt sit too well at all with him.  I am trying to SAVE money by not going out there every month.  He will not accept that.  He will even send me money from his ssi check that he gets once a month so i will come and see him.  Therefore i am OBLIGATED to go.  It's a 2 1/2 hour drive one way, and it gets tiring going all the time.  I wish he would quit being so self-centered and be practical about us.