Eli and i are doing good, i know i still have a lot to work on jealousy wise. I feel that how he's changed so much for the good, i havent changed at all. Jealousy and trust issues have always put a damper on relationships with me. The thing is i have every reason to be... (been cheated on more than once) I know i havent changed my ways, and dont know if i ever will.
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Sweetie, I know how it is for you trust and not be so jealous. If you has cheated on you, he may never change and you can\'t change him. But I want you to know that somehow you can change even though he hurt you. You just need to assess the situation and see where you both stand and try to work it out somehow. It will take time for you to begin to trust again and that\'s fine. Just be patient with yourself. Love TEresa
thank you Teresa! i think i\'m done with men for a while. i jumped into this with him too soon! I just barely left my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years back in march. so... i tried to work things out with eli...thinking a fantasy may happen. and it didnt\'. my goals are to be independent, and have my own place. i live with my parents right now. i left my boyfriend of 4 yrs johnny because he had cheated on me as well and just had his 3rd baby with his ex!!!! i should be on a talk show shouldnt i?? well.. johnny and i check up on each other and see if we\'re \"ok\" and thats about it. i will not go back to him i refuse and he knows. well i\'m sure he\'s thinking \"for now\". i need to regain my focus and for once look out for myself!