My husband wishes I would love myself  My husband wishes I would love myself Maybe if I loved my self I wouldn't be filled with self doubt Maybe if I loved myself I would learn to trust more Maybe if I learned to love myself motives wouldn't be a question Maybe if I loved myself his love wouldn't always be in question Maybe if I learned to love myself the libido would return All of these questions would be resolved and he wouldn't feel so sad and frustrated Now he's taking DS away from me and I will have no where else to turn If only I could stop letting my insecurites get the best of me.

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Easier said than done getting past all the loving of oneself. Do what you can and if he take DS from you he\'s just hurting you more.
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I decided that if he was going to take it away from me when he was around that the best option would be to log on when he wasn\'t home. If he was here now he would take my internet away. He mentioned he was tired of my constant doubts and insecurities.....but he has to remember I was molested as a child and I have to struggle with the lack of love I got as a child.
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It is a hard thing to be your own best friend, but if you don\'t love yourself then it makes it hard for others to. I have the same problem. I understand if you ever need to talk. Lots of love, k.k.
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I just wanted to say that when I saw your picture I did not see some-one who was fat but a buatiful confident woman.
As for your husband, it must be frusterating for him if he loves you very much and all he gets is doubt. It might also be hard for him if he sees that you turn more to DS then to him for help.
I know that showing your husband that you love him is difficult at times when you are not sure that you love yourself. Just remember on your better days to tell him that you appreciate and love him, it might go a long way.