Why

I cry a lot each night lately   And a question came to me mind.  God watched his son die upon the. Cross it hurt Him so bad to watch that He turned His head and Jesus cried out to His Father.      If God knew how bad it hurt Why Have We Had To Feel This Pain.     Missing you KEN. 2years 7 months. The pain is no better
 
 
I  love you Ken so much.     Mom

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jmk1973
jmk1973

There are no answers to the question, \"WHY\"!!!! God knows I have asked it often, about my husband Sam, my friend Alvin and most of all, my only son, Dean. Why do the good ones go and the worse scum you can immagine still live??
I am sorry that you are hurting and we know it comes in cycles. You just never know when the pain will knock you to your knees. Not even a year for me and I am dreading the 1st anniversary date. Stay strong Sandi, it will get easier some day, so they tell me((((HUGS))))....Julia
deleted_user
deleted_user

Sandi, I do understand the intense grief you are feeling and I am sending you a big hug.
I also believe God loves each one of us massively ! !
I wish you peace and His comfort, Linda
mybeachlover
mybeachlover

WE hopefully will understand someday, but I know that God did not cause my son to pass. My son made choices and we all have free will and it is our choice. I know it does not make it easier but God\'s Son choose to die for us and because of that we will have eternal life and see our children again. I have to hold on to that or I would be crazy with grief. Much love and peace to you. You are in my prayers. Lynette
PLA58
PLA58

I believe WHY will never be answered. I try not to drive myself crazy with the whys. The pain never leaves us the intensity changes but pain is a constant companion. Your tears are natural they cleans the soul, let them come when they want to there is no control.
Sending you big hugs ~ Penny
deleted_user
deleted_user

WHY WHY indeed. I ask that question too. My son was soo sweet ,kind and loving. Why him??? Why Ken???? Why any of our good children. May never know the answer. Just trying to go on and stay strong. Feel a huge big hug Sandi!!!! xoxoxox
Pauljac49
Pauljac49

Sandi, I think I ask myself that question every single day. WHY, WHY Jackie. I will never understand or know why. I wish I could say to you, that it will get better. But I am learning after 14 months that some days i cope and some days I dont cope. Some days I cry and some days I don\'t. This is my life now as is probably yours. We lost the most precious gift, our child. There will never be an answer for us so when I get into that WHY, WHAT IF, OR I SHOULD HAVE cycle, I talk to someone close to me so they can be the voice of reason and try to snap me back to reality. I\'m sending you a big hug, I hope it helps. XXX OOO Gail
RememberKala
RememberKala

I\'m sorry you\'re hurting so terribly my friend....

I\'ve stopped asking why....never got an answer other than sometimes children leave....it\'s all part of the human experience. I don\'t like that part.....
KandL
KandL

Hello Sandi, I do not ask why because I believe that much of life is random and that there is no reason why Kenny or Ed should have left so soon other than sometimes terrible things happen to good people. Its so unfair though. I cry at night too. we will miss our boys forever but one day we will have our tears wiped away. Until then I send love and the tightest of hugs...know you are loved and not alone, Linda