Life sucks

Sometimes life sucks. Even when others are happy.   Another mom at our church lost her son to cancer.     Right now I am just feeling I hate everything.   
 
My Vent.   Horrible break down about Ken Friday.   

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Abotsd
Abotsd

I am sorry that another death has entered your gaze. So sorry, it does add up. Another young man gone to Cancer. That terrible word. I hope you can find some distractions for yourself. Our sons wouldn\'t want to see us so consumed by grief. We loved them and they loved us. Life is a precious gift, not to be wasted. Are you getting any exercise? therapy? help? love ya, Abby
deleted_user
deleted_user

Oh Sweetie..I know how you feel...We never know when our \"Melt down\" will come...Just remember JESUS never promised us life would be easy, HE did , however promise HE would always be with us, and never forsake us...Hold onto that....We have such a wonderful future ahead of us with our Babies!!! Love You,,,Patti (Matt\'s Mom).
NoraMc
NoraMc

Oh how sad...I do hope you can send fmo her way..
((hugs))
Livingjuicy
Livingjuicy

So sorry dear Sandi for your friend and oh, how I understand those breakdowns. Let the tears flow and vent away... this is what we must do and this is where you can feel safe to.

Loving care,
Joanie
RememberKala
RememberKala

I\'m so sorry....

This human experience can surely suck sometimes. I hear you. I feel you.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Hang in there Sandi, things will get better.
ter1
ter1

It\'s good to vent. I do it often. I was talking with my son Jim just last night and I told him I don\'t think I\'m capable of being happy and feeling joy anymore. I do feel peace at times, but not joy, I just go through the day like a robot most of the time not feeling much of anything -- which I\'m fine with now -- because when I am feeling it\'s sorrow that I feel most. I have been getting more and more moments of peacefulness and that\'s what I want most out of life now.
DorisL
DorisL

I feel your pain,it\'s the same for me. Feel like nothing will ever be good again.
Hugging you tightly Doris
Missinglisa
Missinglisa

Yup. Sometimes life just does suck.
It is so hard seeing others going through the pain we feel - it is almost a double whammy.
Big gentle hugs,
Marlene
JennsMom66
JennsMom66

It brings all the pain back out doesn\'t it.. I know it does with me.
As hard as it is, you can offer her the most. I know when my daughter was sick my one coworker who\'s daughter had died avoided me like the plague... it was just too hard for her, but I needed her to tell me that I could live through this... luckily i found FMO to do that.
Hugs, tight hugs, MaryLou
deleted_user
deleted_user

It absolutly sucks!!! It\'s ok to let loose and just cry. It;s so sad when life is taken too soon. I know when I hear of a child\'s death now, it is ten times worse than ever!! (((((BIG HUGS)))), Phyllis
deleted_user
deleted_user

It\'s awful, my Sean died almost two years ago, the whole thing seems like a bad dream sometimes. I understand, I am sorry for your pain. Hugs, Marisa
Dreamstill
Dreamstill

Another precious mother suffering...it all hurts so much. Sometimes the venting and tears are just what we need to ease our pain for a while until we can reach some level of relief again. My heart is with you. Hugs, Amber
mummar
mummar

Cancer - no rhyme or reason. I hate that word. I am so sorry for your mom at church. It\'s an awful disease - I hope you are able to help her in her journey. Take care of yourself ~ Joanna
deleted_user
deleted_user

Those \'break-down\' days...I call them melt down days! They are the worst!! So sorry you had one Friday. So sorry to hear about the Mom from your church. Cancer is such a terrible word. I hope she gets all the support she needs.

Hugs,
Fran