i guess up until now (or at least last fall) i had been able to make the location/changes that i needed AND WANTED to when i needed to within certain time limits/etc.
that changed last summer/fall when i took the all or nothing approach to what i thought would change my/our lives for the better. wow what a tough lesson to learn on how to handle job search/interpersonal relationships/general professionalism. seems as if I gathered everything together that i was upset about and tried to change all those things at once (job/location/opportunity/climate). guess i have to work on it a piece at a time.
that changed last summer/fall when i took the all or nothing approach to what i thought would change my/our lives for the better. wow what a tough lesson to learn on how to handle job search/interpersonal relationships/general professionalism. seems as if I gathered everything together that i was upset about and tried to change all those things at once (job/location/opportunity/climate). guess i have to work on it a piece at a time.
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why am i still trying to rehash this whole episode ? sure seems odd. why do i still want to keep holding on to it ? maybe because i see that as a way of holding on to what i should have done ? who knows.
i see the current situation as one that is loaded with risk and other things that just are not what the other situation was.