Green Smiley Monday

It is Monday and I am at peace. 
I am sitting here in the living room of Lisa's dear friend.  Nancy lives in a beautiful home on Rideau Lake.  I have been last night to the haunting sound of loons and yesterday we saw a muskrat swim by. 
I love the early morning as the boats are not out yet out so it is quiet.  The only sound is the birds chirping.
I am here to attend Cevyn's (my granddaughter) graduation on Thursday.  We arrived on Saturday.  We had lunch with Cevyn and her friend and then drove out here.
We are going to visit Lisa's grave today and hopefully catch up with some of Lisa's friends.
Nancy and Lisa worked together and soon became best friends.  Together they managed a home care office.  They worked hard but had a lot of fun together.  Nancy and I reminisced and laughed until our sides almost split.  It was wonderful to be with someone who knows and loves Lisa almost as much a I do.
Nancy's husband died about a year ago.  So she regaled us with stories of some of the antics they got up to throughout their life together - i.e. when they were on their honeymoon in Italy - traveling by motorbike.  Bill went out one day and had an accident - he arrived back with a full body road rash!  And he had to repair his bike so they could continue their trip!
So I have spent the weekend crying and laughing, and eating, and drinking red wine, in the sunshine on the shores of Rideau Lake. 
We agreed that life can throw some pretty devastating curve balls but we cherish the memories.
Have a great week.
Lisa: We miss you always and love you forever.  Nancy and Mummy

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sonshinedeb
sonshinedeb

Sounds so healing. Enjoying time with your Cevyn and Nancy. How precious are the memories shared.
XOXO, Debbie
connilla
connilla

Yes, it is nice to spend time with others who loved our children...it is a special bond we have with them...xoxoxo
dougadoug
dougadoug

It all sounds very comforting. Enjoy your peace. Sue xo
RememberKala
RememberKala

What a wonderful journal to read!!! Thank you for sharing!!!

\"It is Monday, and I am at peace\".....what a gift!!!!

Enjoy!

Love you!
Love to Lisa!

PS...and THANK YOU for continuing to honor Barbara by sharing \"Green Smiley Monday\'s\".
Missinglisa
Missinglisa

I see I had a senior\'s moment in my journal. I fell asleep last night listening to the loons!
NoraMc
NoraMc

you are so allowed a senior moment...... sounds lovely where you are,,, enjoy!
jmk1973
jmk1973

It sounds so cool, where you were last night. Listening to the night sounds, is so special. I am glad you are able to attend your granddaughters\' graduation. Due to Billy having surgery, I was unable to attend my grandson\'s, last month :(

Enjoy your time with Lisa\'s friends and enjoy your sweet memories !!

((((HUGS))))....Julia
mummar
mummar

Sounds like a perfect weekend - good friends and good memories .....good wine, too, I bet:) Congrats on Cevyn\'s graduation - how lovely you are able to see that. Joanna x
Abotsd
Abotsd

Always a pleasure to read about happiness and good times. Life is short and hard, so we must seek out our pleasure in good times with good people. G-d wants us to, and so do our missing children. Sending you a warm hug for the giggles, Abby
Abotsd
Abotsd

Oh, congratulations on your grandaughter\'s graduation. You go girl, I say to mine. The future of our world depends on their good sense and good values. We need to get our democracy back here in the USA. We are all world weary, war weary, and praying for the best. These young people give me hope.
Livingjuicy
Livingjuicy

What a wonderful journal to read today! I remember you speaking about Lisa\'s dear friend and there is just nothing like being with those who love our children too.

Congratulations to your granddaughter on her graduation and I have no doubt that Lisa is in the midst savoring it all.

Lots of love dear Marlene and you never stay in one place for long. LOL! I always look forward to hearing where you are resting your head. :)

XO Joanie
BinkyH
BinkyH

It sounds so lovely, Marlene! I am so happy that you and Nancy can share. Congrats on Cevyn\'s graduation! Enjoy your stay.
Peace.
biowoman
biowoman

Haha senior moment! I have those! I am so glad that you are there reminiscing and seeing Cevyn graduate! That is wonderful! I would love to listen to loons..love and hugs!!
KandL
KandL

Marlene, I knew what you meant to say and falling asleep to those sounds must have been lovely.
What a blessing to share sweet memories of Lisa with Nancy. And to laugh and remember Nancy\'s husband with her. Enjoying and holding onto the good in life.
Congratulations to Cevyn! How proud you must be! Thank you for sharing this wonderful entry. Love to you and Lisa, Linda
CFMOM2
CFMOM2

Enjoy the blessings and know that Lisa will be with you every step of the way. Sending you love, Kathy