I get a e-mail from my roommate this morning titled "cleaning" would you clean the bathroom blah blah blah. I reminded her that I asked her not to put her requests in writing to me. I looked up a bunch of words in the dictionary to describe this situation and the ones I like are control: exercise restraint or direction over, dominate, command, test, verify-- that is what she is doing about the cleaning in the house. it has only been two weeks since I swept the floor b/c last weekend my allergies were so bad so it would be this weekend that I would do it and she didn't know I mopped the bathroom. The other word I like is deal: to occupy oneself or itself. She is occupied with it. I don't want to be occupied with it espsecially with her over control. and I definitely don't want to be criticized.