well, I did somethign very assertive. friday night my bf and i went out with my former former roommate and her bf and had a nice time. until she started drama and a fight with her bf. I am sick and tired of her constantly bringing up when she is around me her drama with her bf. she's always talking about him to me behind his back like, blah blah blah, so I don't know what to do, I want to leave but I don't want to I don't know what to do what would you do ok but I don't want to leave I cant' I wont but I'm so unhappy. bah! second of all, when we first met and agreed to be roommates there was a situation where she betrayed me with a guy and I've never trusted her about that since. so I realized that she isn't the best friend for me to keep so instead of avoiding her calls I called her back and told her "I need us to end our friendship." and some other things. my older wiser friend at work who I just confessed this story too said "that was very strong of you." and "I'm glad you trusted your intuition." so that makes me feel like I did the right thing. I already feel like I did the right thing even though it wasn't easy at all for me to do. So that was assertive.