Negativity and feeling sorry for ourselves can make things so much bigger than they are.
I have been working on staying positive for so long. I was thinking to myself the other day, why do I get myself so worked up and anxious for the littlest things. Do I need attention, am'I being selfish. I think in alot of ways, yes I'am being very selfish. If I can step outside of myself and take a good look around things really are not as bad as they seem, and if things do get bad I need to react appropriately. No dramatize.
I'am also tired of all the superstitions out there. Why do we put road blocks up for ourselves. Don't walk under a ladder, don't break a mirror, don't let a black cat cross your path, etc. We might as well just climb under a rock and let life pass us by.
Being bipolar and having fibromyalgia is enough drama for me. I need to stop sweating the little stuff and deal with whats real.