10/24/2014

Time is passing. Next weekend I will take a load of clothes and necessities to Baton Rouge. Planning to stay in an extended stay place for a week or two while I find a place to live. Will come back to Natchitoches every weekend and take more down. Planning to spend Thanksgiving getting things ready for the final phase of the move which will be November 29.
As far as I know he is not aware I am leaving. Not when or where. Will change all my phone numbers and make them unlisted. Will change my email address too. I doubt he knows that I have gone back to my maiden name. He will be able to find me if he wants, of course. But making it as difficult as I can.
Looking forward to all of the move, etc being over so I can focus on building a new life. Will be hard. I dont know anyone there and I will have to force myself to get out and about and meet people.

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Lori63
Lori63

You will be fine my friend! I have done a thousand things I never thought I could since this mess started for me.

Take a deep breath, and don\'t give him another thought. Know that we are here for you
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary

Hugs, my friend. You are doing the right thing. Leave him and his maliciousness behind. A beautiful, peaceful life is awaiting you
Lori63
Lori63

P$-be a great time to go Totally No Contact no matter what
gustokitty
gustokitty

Good luck. You are very brave. I am the only person I know who has moved to a place where I knew no one. pleased to meet you.
jaclyn1973
jaclyn1973

Thank you. It\'s not the first time I have done this, but it will be the hardest.