Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
He texted me today. I told you all that I msgd him last week, trivial as it was, I beat myself up for it. I shouldn'thave done it and I completely regret it.
Today i get a text from him telling me about how it bothers him knowing that I'm with or will be with someone else and walking around wearing this necklace he gave me. He asked if he could have it back and in turn, he'd give me back whatever I gave him. !*^@%$#&. he said he hopes I understand and that I'm not insulted.
yeah
I literally lol'd him and asked if times were hard. and then I proceeded to say that I want NOTHING from him and he will get nothing from me because I lost it. (I didn't lose it, but i sure as hell am going to sell it to teh highest bidder now) He responded be saying that I'm fckng LOW. ya. I'M low.
I ended the convo with 'I'm low. ya. take care M"
So that, my friends, pretty much eliminates any residual feelings I've had for him.
NO CLASS
Today i get a text from him telling me about how it bothers him knowing that I'm with or will be with someone else and walking around wearing this necklace he gave me. He asked if he could have it back and in turn, he'd give me back whatever I gave him. !*^@%$#&. he said he hopes I understand and that I'm not insulted.
yeah
I literally lol'd him and asked if times were hard. and then I proceeded to say that I want NOTHING from him and he will get nothing from me because I lost it. (I didn't lose it, but i sure as hell am going to sell it to teh highest bidder now) He responded be saying that I'm fckng LOW. ya. I'M low.
I ended the convo with 'I'm low. ya. take care M"
So that, my friends, pretty much eliminates any residual feelings I've had for him.
NO CLASS
I've been holding on to it sentimentally. I couldn't wear it or get rid of it.
Now I'm ready to trade it in for a sweet pair of leather boots..
You're very strong Missmom. Strong enough not to worry about him anymore :)
I'm glad he made this move. Without knowing it, he did me one BIG favor.
I've just had enough. Everyone gets to that point at some point.
This mofo had the balls to ask me to return quite possibly the only good and thoughtful thing he has ever done for me. That's just gross in my book.
And you're right about all of us having this point where we just can't stand him anymore.
xx
"Well I have no money to move with so you hand over the title to the car I bought you so I can sell it for money to move."
Such an assclown! I've lost all respect and trust in that man. He told me he bought that car for me so he would know our son was safe when with me because he goes every where with me but, because he needs money to get out he wants to take it away? way to think of your son a-hole.
And angeldove66, yeah, that was really low from him (as was also the case for Missmom75's ex, of course).