Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
I love to much! Ive completly wrecked my life with this afflication, I know the truth now,I recognize the patterns,the reasons why!!! So now what??? Theres nothing left and im to old for another chance!! Where do I go from here alone?
Loving too much is a life-long affliction. I will always be someone who loves too much. I will experience progress and set-backs, but what is important is that you keep being aware and keep trying to moderate the degree of favors and love you freely give away. Most importantly, though, we need to realize that we cannot earn the love of other people by doing nice, unsolicited things to earn their love. Otherwise we live in a world where we are constantly giving but getting little in return. This takes away our energy and creates resentment.
Being alone can be a permanent or temporary situation, depending on how much we want to raise or lower our standard. Do we want perfection or good enough? from there we can decide what we can put up with, and what we can't put up with.
I encourage you to read the book fully--a few times, if necessary, and then put the plan into action of doing things for yourself which will make you feel nurtured and loved. Do activities which you love with groups of people. This will make you not feel so alone.
I would love to share since it made such a difference in my life.