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WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.

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Ladies group question

Dogmom2020
Dogmom2020

So I don't "love too much." I'm only here because the women in my family and I are not close at all and I'm seemingly going through "the change," And most girlfriends in my circle are not quite there.


My bed is drenched and soaking, nightly. I'm doing so much laundry it's incredible. I don't like doing outdoor activities with my gfs and I almost want to make a public announcement that hey! I've been going through "the change" for past two years and it aint getting any better.


Can the ladies on here that know of anyone or someone or themselves please comment? I turned 40 this year but it started at 38. I know that's extremely young and it terrifies me.



Some of my gfs are like Oh you'll be fine. I ask them if they are going through it, to which they reply that they aren't. So how the heck can they relate?!


Thanks for reading. I wish my issue was another man or woman but it's just me. :/

Dogmom2020
Dogmom2020
I must say I omitted the biggest part- that my journey to create a traditional family is seemingly over. I will never carry a child. That in itself is heart wrenching.
caddo88
caddo88
Have you ever read Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom? I think it may have information for you. I’m sorry about your inability to have children because your body is changing earlier than average. Wishing you all the best.
Candygurl
Candygurl
Dogmom, I hope you have good medical care. Early menopause can also be due to other conditions. Do you have a family history of this?

As a mom, I am here to say that people seem to consider birth the culmination of parenthood. In fact, it is the preliminary. The many years of raising a child make you forget all about the time before they were born. So you can still be a parent, just without the 9 month part. You would never have been able to convince me of that before I had kids.

There are many herbal remedies for hot flashes, I use them myself. Start visiting the health food store and try a few. You'll find something that works and it is a major improvement! Also, stay hydrated and rested if you can, and avoid eating too much red meat. Find a few older friends you can talk to about this. It gets better and the freedom from the period is awesome!