Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
Damnit. I freaken hate that. And in the dream I remember thinking how WOW is this a dream??!
He said exactly the things he would say too.
ugh.
He said exactly the things he would say too.
ugh.
I think that these break ups are so unbearably painful because of the garbage self worth we have.
Our self worth is so unbelievably low that when we get close to someone, we lose our identity and adopt theirs. We feel better about ourselves through them, because of them. They are just so damn awesome and wow, they are with us! So WE must be awesome too! We so admire everything they do, they are SO cool and so we try to be like them, we start to believe everything they say and do - everything they say and do is golden. And then WOW, they say they love us. yeah...not so much, because when their lust (not love) runs out - we are left depleted, lost, feeling worthless.
Why? because we went into it soul-less and reaching for them to complete us. We made ourselves better for them. And now they're gone, and what's left is deflated me, you, all of us who don't know what the hell self worth is.
So sick of this cycle. SICK OF IT!
Amen!