Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
I volley this back though.
*I could get lied to or hurt but my instincts are getting stronger by the day I'm trusting my gut and instincts. if someone chooses to drop the ball when it comes to honesty and truth there loss I no longer give second chances : )
* I am no longer blind to another's shortcomings, I know who, I am not perfect but real.
* Real is enough. Who I am is more than enough.
* I refuse to ever abandon myself again.......... So how can another person be able to do this to me if I refuse to every do this to me again.
* Opening yourself to another is all about respecting your own personal boundaries and self love.
* There are times in your life where you need to let go of the reins to feel fully alive even if it's making the first move on a kiss or running through the grass barefoot after the rain DONT FORGET to live fully after this it is one of our main lessons.
* Some of the wonderful traits I have that make me me that I thought we weird and kooki. If I stop them the donuts out there that have made us feel like dicks win. So I like to rap in my pj's and do Kung fu panda moves in my pjs , I cry when someone is telling me a sad story even if I dont know them. I dance and sing when I run with my dog. I dress for me. I like to watch cheesy series sometimes.........who cares.
* If it ends I'll be sad for a bit if it has gone pear shaped but I've been to hell and back so regardless where this goes I'll come back because I'm stronger than people give me credit for. Dont mistake kindness for lack of strength.This whole experience has cracked some pieces of me but also made me stronger and given me clearer vision and strength.
* It may fall apart or be a great love but I'm not thinking jinx thoughts now , I'll use my new instincts and my new self love and lets see if this man has what it takes to love me.
* Your/we are lovable , unfortunately the people we chose did not love themselves properly to love us back and vice versa. Baby steps - Like yourself then learn to love yourself strengths/ weaknesses quirky habits then be you be real not someone who you want them to see. Real.
It's never going to perfectly safe out there but if you dont jump in for a swim and open yourself up to possibilities life just does not pay you back for your love and effort. It's a circle.
Your loved my many you dont need a saviour. Also your loved by yourself.
Your heart feels empty but when you hold your child or laugh with a virtual stranger or just giggle with friends the bastards out there in our lives have not won or should we give them any credit.
Everyone deserves a whole life you just have to visualize it calmly as every ones vision is different then go lay some foundations to get it. A little positive energy , a belief happiness is a daily choice and there is more than we think out there that we should be grateful for we should be grateful for.
Sending Love to you all.
Kris