Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
Yes you read right. He bashed me and I've recently discovered I'm having his baby. I was living with him. He has the mental illness, schizophrenia. One night he was unable to control himself and he bashed me up, for absolutely no reason. I left him and since then I've discovered I'm pregnant. I'm very happy to my be pregnant even though I'm on my own. My concern is that I will have a baby with schizophrenia or autism or some other form of mental illness. Is it possible?
My sister ( two years older) has schizophrenia. She is stabilized with medicine which prevents her from having hallucinations. (She used to see people and hear voices...)
She was EXTREMELY violent when we were young, she sent me to hospital many times.
Do you really want to bond for life with a person that has such a disorder? Risk the same on your child? Have this role model as a father?
Lie to the child? Hide the truth about his real father?
She was "only" my sister and it took me years to recover from the abuse.... I can't imagine if she was my mother or father....
I have lived in the fear of becoming like her, but you do not get the syndrome, you have it or not. It is genetic. My parents don't have it.
She had infantile psychosis, suffered from " anorexie du nourrisson", went to a psychiatrist by the age of three, she basically has tried to kill me and has destroyed all my belongings all my childhood. I left my parents's home at 17 I could not study near her, she was too toxic...
She was extremely clever had a high IQ and was a real predator.
the exact description of my sister's syndrome is " schizophrenie stabilisée avec hébéphrénie évoluant vers un autisme" I would not wish this to anyone.
She has a pension for disabled adult she works in a home for mentally disabled people, she has a flat for disabled people, she is taken care of.... She is 49, looks 70.
This has ruined my parents' life, they have always expected a change that never came. I have always expected a sister I could not have...
Don't use this to destroy your lives. SEEK HELP.
((((Neednurture)))) XXX