Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
For those of you who feel you have never succeeded in anything... nor have you failed.
a friend pointed this out to me... for even if you dont meet your goal, the attempt is a success in itself. even if you didnt try your hardest, you were nonetheless successful in trying. Continuing to try is a success in life, and you are doing exactly what you are supposed to do, and that is simply being alive. and when we can realize that the rest truly doesn't matter, you will understand that you can never fail.
a friend pointed this out to me... for even if you dont meet your goal, the attempt is a success in itself. even if you didnt try your hardest, you were nonetheless successful in trying. Continuing to try is a success in life, and you are doing exactly what you are supposed to do, and that is simply being alive. and when we can realize that the rest truly doesn't matter, you will understand that you can never fail.
You are so right, its all about trying. And we are here simply to be alive and experience life. Life happens in the present, not in the future. So often I can just get lost in my goals and frustrated that I haven't achieved them. All I focus on is how much my life sucks and I want to change it and it'll be better in 5 years. I'm trying to work on just accepting the moment for what it is, working on my goals, letting go of the outcome, and as this post wonderfully reminds me, knowing that just the fact I'm trying means I AM LIVING and that in this moment I am successful for that reason since the point of life is to live.