Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
I actually awoke to some very good news today. Myself and the other ex have found out that 3 days ago N had left to take up a 12 month job offer overseas starting in the new year. I guess what it means for us is we definaetly at least know we will not see him but im feeling a sense of relief but im also feeling sad and anxious over it as well.Thats kind of sick isnt it can anyone maybe help me make some sense of these feelings. I appreciate so much this support. xo
The conflicting emotions comes from cognitive dissonance. The main problem women have after leaving pathological men is obtrusive constant thoughts of the relationship and cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is an uncomfortable feeling caused by holding two contradictory ideas simultaneously.
If they are so horrible then why are we anxious? Google PTSD, these relationships are so horrible that we are left with PTSD. It is like going thru a war.