Women who Love too Much Community Group

WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.

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Ah yes... i remember this pain.

Group FounderDracona
Dracona
Hurts so incredibly bad. Heavy chest. Cant breathe. Cant sleep. I feel so alone. Im so angry with myself. I have no one to talk to. I hurt. I greive for the loss of yet what turned out to be another fantasy. I have to leave.... His best "friend " knows more about him than i do. Defends him for hitting me... Saying i shouldnt get him in trouble. He was texting some 17 year old girl about how hot she was. Took her to a movie... So many reasons to run. I just hurt so bad. I thought we had a family. I only wanted a family.
speedy1033
speedy1033
Oh yea.. Alot of that sounds so familiar! One day at a time with no contact.. Withdrawls.
finnmyway
finnmyway
(((((((((dracona))))))))))) the details don't matter in the end. in the end all that matters is that we've let ourselves down b/c we made a poor choice....that's what we get to move on from. we get to heal and make another choice. his lies don't matter really b/c you've decided you are leaving him b/c HE HIT YOU and he's not the right person to be a role model for your daughter.......

the fact that this happened again dracona probably indicates that you have not yet healed the wounds that cause you to choose men like him. but you can. and i know you will.

the pain is misery......be gentle with yourself......and trust that since you know more and you know better this doesnt' have to ever happen again.... you are growing. just becasue you HATE lies and lying and liars doesn't mean he won't lie to you. it's in fact or could be in fact a self fulfilling prophecy.

every blade of grass has an angel that bends over it and says, grow. grow. something like that....lol.
Group FounderDracona
Dracona
I know... No details... And it doesnt matter. This time im trying to get over myself! I left him the first time... Cant stress no contact enough. I broke no contact and got stuck in this mess im in now. Grrrr. Im gonna take that blade of grass and shove it up his ass so he shits salad everytime he thinks of me... Ha. Ok. Sorry lol angry sarcasm leaked through. Gotta let that go too.