Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
Hello everyone
I'm having a hard day... a really hard one. Today I was going to my uni and my ex (the one that never takes my street to go to class, and I would ask him to when we were together) appeared from thin air. So I made it all the way behind him.. he would walk, and I would walk faster as if to catch him because I know that deep inside I wanted him to notice me. It ended up being a satirical comedy of my relationship, me trying to walk faster behind him but never reaching him.
I just feel like a bus drove over me and stopped. I can't breathe very well and I just feel like crying. My head hurts, my heart hurts I just want to leave but don't know where to go. I feel like I'm getting out of tears to cry. I'm feeling like a sad little person that is making this previous relationship more than it was. I am sacrificing my health, my concentration because I can't let go and I just continuously feel hurt.
I am hurt. That has been my sentence, my word since the beggining of september. Everything I've achieved last year I'm losing this year. I'm not focused, and I'm loveless. I just feel so lonely and helpless.
I'm having a hard day... a really hard one. Today I was going to my uni and my ex (the one that never takes my street to go to class, and I would ask him to when we were together) appeared from thin air. So I made it all the way behind him.. he would walk, and I would walk faster as if to catch him because I know that deep inside I wanted him to notice me. It ended up being a satirical comedy of my relationship, me trying to walk faster behind him but never reaching him.
I just feel like a bus drove over me and stopped. I can't breathe very well and I just feel like crying. My head hurts, my heart hurts I just want to leave but don't know where to go. I feel like I'm getting out of tears to cry. I'm feeling like a sad little person that is making this previous relationship more than it was. I am sacrificing my health, my concentration because I can't let go and I just continuously feel hurt.
I am hurt. That has been my sentence, my word since the beggining of september. Everything I've achieved last year I'm losing this year. I'm not focused, and I'm loveless. I just feel so lonely and helpless.
On top of it while we nurture ourselves in the way she describes there is progressively a real change.
We learn to love ourselves more, and acknowledging in that way that we deserve the best next time we will set up higher boundaries. Certainly be attracted to a man with better qualities.
There is hope.
This is the big question that we have all once asked to ourselves, because we all have sometime felt lonely.
At home, if I feel alone, I take care of myself, do things for the house, read a book, Watch a movie, write my diary, listen to music, etc.
If I am alone and I feel like going out, I go alone to the movies, or have coffee in a coffee shop, or take a walk downtown or in the parc , sit on a bench watching people walk by, or in the playground watching children play, simple things like that.
In a resumee, taking some action until you feel differently.
These are ideas I can give to you.