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Not sure how to start this discussion. I am 51 years old and have been married for 21 years. My husband and I have had our ups and downs. I have a gambling addiction which he seen me through. We went to another country for 6 months. Needed to learn Spanish. We have a caretaker because it is a poor country and you need someone there. He is 25 years old.
I started having an affair with him. I wanted sex with him a lot, like every day. And so we had sex every day for 3 months and then my husband and I came home. I haven't wanted sex with my husband for probably the last 8 months.
My periods had stopped for 3 months and then started again. At this point I'm thinking a break might be good. My husband doesn't work. I do when we are home. I feel like a bitch because everything my husband does bugs me and has for awhile now.
Just looking for some advice as I haven't told any one about my affair. This is the first time I have slept with someone other than my husband. I know things happen for a reason just not sure what this is about.
I started having an affair with him. I wanted sex with him a lot, like every day. And so we had sex every day for 3 months and then my husband and I came home. I haven't wanted sex with my husband for probably the last 8 months.
My periods had stopped for 3 months and then started again. At this point I'm thinking a break might be good. My husband doesn't work. I do when we are home. I feel like a bitch because everything my husband does bugs me and has for awhile now.
Just looking for some advice as I haven't told any one about my affair. This is the first time I have slept with someone other than my husband. I know things happen for a reason just not sure what this is about.
blooming19
It sounds like you're starting to go through menopause. Maybe you should have your hormone levels checked. I know everyone will say that cheating is wrong no matter what the situation but we're only human. It's hard living with someone you don't have feelings for anymore. When women are beginning to go through menopause our hormones are all over the place and our sex drives increase the way mens do in their twenties. enjoy it, it only last a few years. lol If you really aren't happy with your husband maybe a break is a good idea
JOYHOLY
HELLO, YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THE MENOPAUSE, STILL NEED TO BE CAREFUL, YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT, IT IS YOUR LIFE, WHILE IT IS WRONG TO CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND, IT SHOWS THAT YOU ARE NOT HAPPY, AND MAYBE YOUR MARRIAGE IS COME TO A POINT THAT NEEDS ATTENTION, DO YOU STILL LOVE YOUR HUSBAND, DOES HE LOVE YOU, IT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT, LOVE LUCY*******
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