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Menopause/ No desire for sex

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deleted_user
Have you lost that loving feeling? I have, its been 3 years. I'm 48 and need to hear from you. My husband has been very understanding but I feel like he has his limits too. We talk about it and we are just taking it one day at a time. Ladies let me hear from you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Women let me hear from you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I can relate. I have even gone on HRT and still dont feel like having sex.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Are you still on the HRT? Do you experience dryness? If I can say this even the clitoris feels different. (no feeling) How are you dealing with this?
deleted_user
deleted_user
still on HRT. I do have some dryness but not as bad as before. The whole area down there feels different. If I have sex once a week thats more than enough for me. Lucky my hubby is doing shift work so our paths dont cross that often.
blooming19
blooming19
I can definately relate. After I went through menopause I lost all desire for sex. I also had extreme dryness but KY really helps with that. My sex drive is coming back but I still have no desire for my husband because of some problems in our marriage. Have you talked to a doctor. there may be something they can do to help
summerbda
summerbda
LOL This is funny...I'm in menopause BUT I lost interest in sex long before that! Sex has never really been important to me...but luckily I've faked it well for years...only now I have an excuse to not have it much! LOL Thank goodness..
deleted_user
deleted_user
NOT ME LADIES I GOT EVEN " HORNIER " AFTER I HAD A HYSTERECTOMY ?? WHICH SENT ME INTO A FULL MENOPAUSE AT 39

GOT EVEN WETTER WHICH IS A MYSTERY SINCE I HAD THE GLAND REMOVED ??
I HAD EVERYTHING REMOVED WITH THE OPERATION ... BUT HAVE A HUSBAND WHO HAS NO DESIRE TO HAVE SEX .. SO I AM AND HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED FOR YEARS NOW ...... SUCKS ........
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hi,
I had a hysterectomy in 2008 (came home from the hospital the same day my divorce papers arrived in the mail). So, no, I have "lost that loving feeling" completely. I don't miss intimacy with my ex or anyone else. A married friend recently had a hysterectomy and she says she's having a hard time with it too. So I guess it's pretty normal . Good luck to you.
JOYHOLY
JOYHOLY
HELLO, WITH AGE THE HORMONE LEVELS CHANGE TOO, AND MAYBE WE ALL NEED TIME FOR OURSELVES ,WHILE MAN JUST WANT SEX, NO LOVEMAKING, IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU HELP THEM IN THEIR NEEDS, I WAS PATIENT WITH H FOR OUR MARRIAGE SAKE, BUT WHEN HE CONFESSED TO ADULTERY ,I NO LONGER CARE, HE CAN LEAVE AT ANY TIME, I HAVE CAME TO HATE SEX, IT WAS LOVEMAKING I NEEDED, IF HE COULD SO EASILY GO AND FUCK WITH HIS EX, THEN HE NEVER LOVED ME, A MAN SAID '' WHY WOULD A MAN GO WITH ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN HE HAS A LOVING WOMAN , BECAUSE HE HAS NO RESPECT OR LOVE'' AND HE SAID IT SO BEAUTIFULLY***WE SHOULD DO WHAT WE FEEL, NOT WHAT ANYBODY ELSE WANT FROM US..LOVE LUCY**
deleted_user
deleted_user
I hear you. I used to be very sexual and I am even on natural hormones but I could care less.
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