It has been no secret since we dated and on into our marriage my husband had a drinking problem. I lived in a fantasy world!3 months after we got married i became pregnant with our son! He did well not drinking as much or daily! But then it started again. In these 7 years i have noticed that the drinking has been sneaky and the money spen is never told! He can be fun or as ass when drinking! I have left him before because of the drinking and he didnt drink for 6 months and then bam again! It is like that is how he coops with his emotions! He has a 16 yr old daughter who is hardly in his life and when she is it is to get something which is truly heartbreaking! I do not want my son or daughter thinking drinking is a normal and okay daily activity! I am starting college in August making a better life for me and my kids! I just need support/advice, anybody been where i am?