I went to court last week for my temporary orders hearing. I had put in place a paramour order so my twelve year old daughter would not be exposed to any more confusing, emotional trauma. When my husband picked our daughter up for a visit Wednesday night he took her to a new residence that neither her or I was aware of and informed our daughter that he has moved in with his "lady friend". The worst part was my daughter coming home and having to break the news to me that dad had moved in with a woman. He just filed for divorce 2 months ago. I am still in shock over the utter disregard for any other person than himself! I called and informed her guardian and my attorney and pray to God that someone helps to protect my daughter from any more unnecessary emotional damage.
I feel for you and your daughter. Sounds like a selfish man. I know how you must be feeling. I've
been done as dirty as a person could imagine. You hang in there. Its terrible to go through something like this.
Time and support rrom familky , close friends , support group will heal the pain over time.
You deserve better. I feel my stbx did me a favor in a way.At least I am not too old to do something about it.
Mitty - make certain you tell your lawyer you want a forensic accountant to go through his financials. If he is spending money on a whore, oh sorry - a 'paramour' he needs to be exposed and pay you back!
You deserve better and he doesn't deserve you. Your daughter doesn't need this crap either.
Unfortunately, when an alcoholic loses control, seems their morals completely go as well. I don't even recognize my ex-h and what he is willing to be with these days. Gross
been done as dirty as a person could imagine. You hang in there. Its terrible to go through something like this.
Time and support rrom familky , close friends , support group will heal the pain over time.
You deserve better. I feel my stbx did me a favor in a way.At least I am not too old to do something about it.
You deserve better and he doesn't deserve you. Your daughter doesn't need this crap either.