I am 23 living with my boyfriend for the past 3 years. He has struggled with alcohol since way before we met. 

We have a better home life after two years of being unhappy we now have a puppy as well. He told me he was done drinking becuase of the things that have happened in our relationship and all the issues it has caused in his life. He kept on drinking of course i thought it was less but he was just really good at hiding it. 

I been begging him to get help and stop drinking and he swore on everything he was not it went as far as him telling me he needs to see a doctor because he is losing hours in the day and falling alseep and he thinks something is wrong in his head and all this BS. This went on for months i thought he had a medical condition and he was feeding me lies and he was actually just wasted. The truth came out when he was literally 1 minute from our home when he fell asleep at the wheel hit two cars and got a felony and his lisence taken away for the second time. Now i have to drive him aroud for another two years. he had tried to get me to go with him that day too. He has taken our puppy on drives while impaired (figured that out through his aunt who was texting me telling me he has the dog and is trying to take his little sister while wasted) he swore he was just very tired and didnt get any sleep. ( lies) I was very miserable for years and im scared im just wasting my time if i stay with him.

I am having a really hard time seperating him from all the lies his has told me to feed his habit.