well... after the horrific and mindbendingly insane events of the last two days I’ve had enough. 

So in the middle of a phone call he makes to me a work on Friday, for no rational reason whatsoever ( except that he was drunk ) he starts screaming and cursing at me ... the usual verbal abuse ( I had not said a word about the drunkenness and was purposefully keeping the conversation lighthearted ). I was bringing two friends home with me. He told me I was not to come home and he was locking all the doors and using the dead bolt so I couldn’t get in. Asswipe

yesterday  he woke up in his punishing mood, the silent treatment, disrespectful in all ways. ENOUGH! 

I sat down and told him I cannot live this way any more and since I will not live on a divorced woman’s divorce $$$ and im planning on retiring, I will not let his al oholism ruin my life. He is to move out of our bedroom if I even suspect he is drunk and that if he does not IMMEDIATELY change his fucked up attitude I will consider myself free from our marital contract. He is to leave me the fuck alone unless it is with respect I deserve. 

This morning I joined a new yoga studio and I’m out the door in 5 minutes ( he is still sleeping) 

i also am bringing along that deadbolt key to make myself a copy. So that threat becomes impotent.

namaste