im sitting here just wondering how the heck did i get here?? my AH is now sitting in the drunk tank as we speak, glad i wasnt home when that happened...sooo embarrassing. I just leave anywhere with my daughter every time he comes home drunk. Not saying a word just out the door we go. I try to hide his destructiveness from our 3 year old but she knows, she tells me shes scared of him when he is drunk. I can't deal with it anymore so i wont say anything. I use to have shouting matches with him but i realized that dont help it just makes it worse. but i do still try talk to him about why he does this to us only while hes sober, but as usually he answers with an i dont know or i wont do it again. im trying to decided if i should love him or leave him....soo annoying