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AMac3
AMac3

Really looking for some help! Brand new here - my AH has been in recovery for 90 days or so.....He was attending meetings almost daily and did an outpatient intensive....seemed like things were looking up....The last couple of days he's overslept his meetings and has been generally moody....and if I question its my fault. Wondering if he's relasped or is about to? I'm at my wits end with this whole thing and have made it very clear that I can't go through another round of this and will not subject my three kids to it either.....I'm attending Al Anon meetings, talking with a therapist, going to marriage counseling - but I feel absolutely HOPELESS - I desperately want to leave him, start a new life with my kids but I have been a stay at home Mom for the last 13 years.....I could never swing it alone.....any kind of advice or kind words would be greatly appreciated!!! 

DSTRICK
DSTRICK
Wish I knew what to tell you, my AH was forced into rehab several years ago only to be released because as he told me "It's all what you say" he didn't want help at the time but pretended enough to be released. He won't even consider rehab now, always has an excuse why he can't get away from work. Which is BS but what do you do??? I hope for your sake and your kids that things work out for you. I understand the making it alone. My kids are grown and on their own but we recently adopted 2 of our teen granddaughters so i'm just living. I work but I don't make enough to afford raising to kids. If it were just me I think I have worked up the courage and the don't give a damn anymore that I would be gone in a heart beat. Hugs and prayers for you as I completely understand!