So my alcoholic boyfriend got arrested with a DUI in January. He lost his license, had court and now has to go to treatment classes three times a week. He has not been taking it seriously since the beginning of them and has still been drinking on and off. Not as bad as he used to, but enough. He finally said he was going to really try and after 5 days of being sober, he started telling me how good it felt and how he likes thatwe don’t fight and he can see how alcohol makes our relationship bad. Well on the 6th day sober night- he went and bought an 8 pack and drank 1 beer and dumped the rest out. I was not home. I came home today and had a surprise for him for his 1 week sober (from what I thought). I showed him and he told me that he drank and broke his sobriety. I broke down. I started hyperventilating and crying. I had to leave the house and just catch my breath. Since it was late at night I didn’t want to go walking the streets so I got in my car and drove down the street to a well lit parking lot and sat there. Well in the 30 mins that I was gone, he drove to come find me- got pulled over- got arrested and is currently sitting in jail waiting for his brother to bail him out. I am so run down and beat down from all of this over the past 2 years of him being an alcoholic I am just at a loss. I absolutely LOVE him when he is sober and is making good choices, but all it takes is something small like this to completely screw us over. I don’t know if I can handle this anymore or if I can handle always wondering if I need to come up with bail money. What am I suppose to do? And if I should end it, how? This isn’t like a normal breakup. Both people still really love each other. I just don’t think I can handle it anymore.